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This thing called love Everyone is looking for it in different shapes and sizes, we all change who we are in order to be prepared for it. However how many of us actually understand what love is. We talk about it, we laugh about, and we go out in search for it at every single comer. We all have our different reasons for searching for it but deep down the fundament principal is the same for all of us. We all want to feel like we matter to someone else out there, that if something where to happen tom us there is someone out there who will care enough to ask questions. Sometimes it hurts to love someone with all you earthly strength and for them to take that love for granted, but there comes a time where we have to understand that our desire to be loved and to loved will not always be returned  by the people we would like. Hurt is sometimes the biggest hurdle we have to climb over in order that we may find the rainbow at the end of the storm. Wanting to feel like you matter to...
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The Best Approach with a Frenemy Recently a friend of mine asked me how things were going at work, and I gave her the usual comments I give to most people: 'It was great I'm learning a lot and I absolutely love what I am doing'.  She paused for a moment then asked me how the people were treating me. This question made me pause for a moment, because i was thinking of all the generic answers I could give - 'agh they are all nice and polite'. Even as I was reciting it in my head I knew it sounded fake.  So I choose to trust her with the plain truth. I replied: 'I have made some really awesome friends, who have chosen to accept me for me however, there are those who are constantly mean and seeking to hurt and insult me with their words - some of them grew tired when they realised that I would not take part in their high school games, others still continue to fight and speak ill of me they just do it in quieter tones now that they now that my uncle sig...