BIG SIS KNOWS WHAT SHE'S TALKING ABOUT... Ok so a few weeks back I come home excited about a post I saw on the Luckysters website about auditions for new presenters at craz-e. I get home and say to her: 'Hey, craz-e is looking for new presenters why don't you check it out and try your luck'. Her response to me was to roll her eyes and mumble under her breath. Then a few days ago she tells me that she made a video for the auditions and sent t through to craz-e but when she went back to read the rules she realised that she was a day late - it was then my turn to roll my eyes and mumble under my breath. Today she gets a watsapp from one of our cousins that her video was shown on craz-e and also that she is on this week’s top 5 list on their Facebook page. So the lesson that I wanted her to learn from here on end is that when I speak to her about important stuff SHE BETTER LISTEN...whether or not she will take heed of my advice is anyone's guess at this point in ti...
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Marriage Tales (shayamoya.co.za) There must be something in the waters because recently everywhere I go the people around me are getting married, getting engage or having babies. So it got me wondering whether or not there is something in the waters that the people around me are drinking - this then got me thinking about what my friend Nsuku said. She told my cousin Tlangi and I last year that we were behind with regards to our marital development and that it’s about time that we get a move on. I then started to think of my grandparents who are about to celebrate 50 years of marriage. Her statement got me wondering if I would be lucky enough to be married to the same man for 50 years and still feel joy every time I look at him. Now don't get me wrong, marriage I’m told is a wonderful thing if entered into in the correct context. Look I still believe in love - I’m just not sure if I believe in marriage…the way marriage is portrayed today does not make it ve...
Healing comes through pain: Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars. Khalil Gibran We need to remember this when we go through trails that feel like they won’t end…I know it’s hard to see the rainbow at the end of the river when your going through things but you need to remember that God gives his strongest battles to his strongest warriors. This is for you my friend, you inspired me to look within myself and understand who and what I am…
MIND CHANGE Sometimes we do the weirdest things in life not because we want to be individuals and stand out but because it’s easier to pretend to be a shark in a pool full of crocodiles. Lately I’ve realised that I sometimes do things - not because I really want to do them but because it seems like the most unique thing at the time. Which sounds a little sad but the reality is I’m glad I have moments like that because it means I am truly aware of who I am as a person and therefore can notice when I do things that are out of character for the fun of things. So I want to continue being weird and out there, I want to continue doing things that I would not normally do to prove a point to others but mostly to myself...I’m weird, I’m wacky and I love every nook and cranny that that makes me the me that I am today.
Change like this...
Things seem to be changing so fast that I can't keep up with them. I feel like I am just am just being carried where ever the wind blows, like I have lost all sense of direction. I wish the world would just stop for five full seconds to give me a chance to catch my breath. I know that things are supposed to change all the time but I just feel like I am being overwhelmed by the new and often scary things change brings into my life... Change is there to clean out the old in order to make room for the new. I'm still holding on to the and maybe that is why I have a hard time accepting change. Lord please give a chance to accept the things I cannot Change but to try and change those that I can Change. Most importantly please give me the strength to know the difference between the two. Amen
SAMSON AND HIS KRYPTONITE Sometime we find help in strange places. Today I was shown the power of God hand upon me. He sent the one person he knew would be totally honest with me to guide me on this journey. Most importantly he reminded me how many people he has sent me that are here to help me. So I am grateful and most thankful for all these people God has put around me, because he has used them to strength my walk with him. So yes I’m blessed and highly favoured, all the glory and dominion to my saviour, as long as I have him nothing else matters. Blessed Proverb ft. The Soil